I saw my 4 years old kindergarten ask the student to stand on the chair and tell their abcs’, is that normal?and she lost her eraser and tell me lies that she dont have homework yesterday and she has and blames others for loosing her eraser. Anyone out there think there is something wrong or that is normal?
Did you loose your eraser?
huh?
what are u trying to say?
she’s only 4 give her a break. she’s not lying, she’s forgetting. does she seriously have homework? my daughter doesn’t and she’s in kindergarten too.
FOR FOUR YEARS OLD – - – I THINK YOU MIGHT WANT TO VISIT AND OBSERVE THE BAHAVIOR OF THE CLASS . MAYBE THERE ARE POSITIVE CONTRIBUTIONS YOU CAN MAKE TO YOUR CHILD OR WHOMEVER IF YOU SEE TOO MUCH DISRUPTION . FOUR YEARS OLD IS YOUNG AND SO YOU CAN EXPECT SOME ANTICS WHICH APPEAR OUT OF WHACK. TALK WITH THE TEACHER AND ASK THEM HOW WHAT YOU CAN DO TO HELP
If the teacher asks the students to stand on their chair and say their ABCs, maybe she is trying to make it more fun for them. I would be concerned if my 4 year old was saying she doesn’t have homework when she does…..do 4 year olds have homework? It sounds like you need to meet with the teacher to clear up this situation. Be sure to ask about her (your child’s) social skills.
Look, little kids have a different view of things in life. Maybe she loaned her eraser out and some kid never gave it back. Maybe she left it somewhere and can’t remember where? A child runs acroos the floor or crawls behind the couch and pulls over a lamp and breaks it and she doesnt understand how it fell. You gouing to crusify her for that? Erasors are what 1 cent a dozen now or a dime a dozen and you want her to fry for losing it? Get Real!Get a LIFE!!!!I lose my keys,glasses and ink pens by the dozens, I am 51 yrs old, your kid is 4 yrs old. Homework, no kid 4 yrs old should have homework! She lost it,well maybe her teacher or teacher’s aide should have made sure it was in her folder and back pack!!!! GIVE ME AND HER A BREAK, SHE IS 4 yrs OLD!!!!!!!
I think that it would be good for you to talk your child’s teacher in regards to your concerns about standing on the chair. It is their duty to every parent to inform and address any concerns you may have. (If it were my child standing on a chair, I would tell the teacher I don’t agree with it due to some safety concerns… at that age they are still learning to balance and could easily fall, etc.)
I think it is normal for your four year old to blame instead of accepting responsibility.
Kids usually think they will be in trouble if they lose something. The best thing to do is let them know it isn’t a big deal that it was lost and that you still love them. When they realize that they won’t be in trouble then the truth will usually be a lot easier.
HUH?
are you talking about the teacher or your kid?